[The] beauty of the world is an accusation that you are withholding your own beauty by being good as opposed to being yourself.
Stephen Colbert re Mary Oliver's poetry
We’ve never been so self-conscious about our selves as we seem to be these days. The popular magazines are filled with advice
on things to do with a self: how to find it, identify it, nurture it, protect it, even, for special occasions, weekends, how to lose it
transiently. There are instructive books, best sellers on self-realization, self-help, self-development. Groups of self-respecting
people pay large fees for three-day sessions together, learning self-awareness. Self-enlightenment can be taught in college
electives.
You’d think, to read about it, that we’d only just now discovered selves. Having long suspected that there was something alive in
there, running the place, separate from everything else, absolutely individual and independent, we’ve celebrated by giving it a real
name, [my] self. . .
Lewis Thomas, The Lives of a Cell - Notes of a Biology Watcher